Fail your way to Success

Failure won’t kill you but your fear to fail just may keep you from success. Failure simply means there is something to be learned or another direction to be taken.




STOP caring about what other people think

Stop worrying about what others think of you

Other peoples opinion can inhibit you from creating greatness in your life

You will always be there prisoner, you will never get out

They will only mess with your head, if you let them

You need to be prepared for other people’s negativity, you need to know your boundaries and set your limits

Ignore people telling you your ideas are bad – If Howard Schultz gave up, there would be no Starbucks

Don’t let the noise effect your choices in life


Confidence is Sexy

Great hair, amazing body, fantastic job?

NO! Confidence is the sexiest thing in the world to attract the lasting love you deserve.


The Winning Mentality

The body has limitations, the mind does not.

You have to be mentality ready to be physically prepared.

The ones who take action everyday, are the ones that achieve their goals.

Everyone on this planet has a gift, it is your job to act on it.


Building Your Character

The most important goal in life is to become a person of excellence. A person that has a clear vision in every aspect of their life. Your purpose in life should be to develop and become the kind of character and personality that earns respect, esteem and love from the important people in the world. A good character can help you to achieve you dreams. It is about the inner work that must be done and followed. It involves your moral code, beliefs and values.  It is about being a good human being, taking responsibility for your actions. Your actions must show your convictions, if you are not convinced about something – you should not be doing it. Character is something that you are born with. Your character comes from within and is long lived. A good character helps you to develop a winning personality. It is the magnet that attracts other people.


Your commitment to your life and work must come from within. Don’t just do things for the sake of doing things. Do what makes you happy, do the things that are fulfilling your life and living up to your potential. Work towards your vision. Nothing is more important than your character and moral values.


Never cheat others, never lie to others (you are just lying to yourself) and most importantly never intentionally hurt anyone.


20 Character Traits to continue to Build to achieve your vision in life:






















Your mind is your Success

From the tender age of 16, I was plagued with depression. I felt like a lost soul. Bound for hell in my isolation, a one way track to degradation. Gone from an A student to a C student, from the top to the bottomless sinkhole. My life whirled like the flush of a toilet bowl and down the pipe it went, and the hand that flushed it, was all my bad decisions in life.

There is no challenge you cannot overcome. You must envision the life you want and pursue it with vigor. See it, believe it, and then pursue it. The hardest part is also ways the beginning, the first steps of change which leads to greatness. The anxiety and stress of that change will go away once you get it going. You must overcome the fear in the beginning to get to where you want to. Once you sit down and do it, it starts to flow, the thoughts start to flow. This has probably happened to everyone at some time. Once you become involved and so deeply engrossed into something, you will become an expert. Immerse yourself in that process.

Life is about habitual routines, pushing yourself to develop further. No one is perfect in this world, but you can’t try to be perfect. You will fail. The only thing to do is to continue to work on yourself and develop yourself. Break down your comfort zones, do things you never thought you could do. You are killing your purpose by overthinking, doubting yourself and doubting your abilities. By listening to others when they tell you to be mediocre. Everyone has a general vision, but you will encounter many obstacles. You need to have resilience to overcome these. It will overwhelm you. You must do it one step at a time, it will kick start you in the right direction. Keep building on those steps, until it becomes easier and easier.

3 things will make you successful: continuously improving yourself, developing a passion for learning and growing, and creating new habits that can change your life daily. It begins now, right at this moment, wherever you are. To be the best leader and to be the best at what you want, you need to choose differently. Give it all got. Successful people lead and exercise their mind. Only you can do it for yourself. Do not follow your friends, do not follow your family. You must know who you are, your strengths and weaknesses. It changes your behavior. It will take you to places you have never been before. It takes determination and discipline to never give up on your dreams and goals.

You can do it, and you can win in life. You can become whatever you decide to become. You must want it so bad that you are willing to never give up on yourself. If you can think it, you can do it. Fight for your dreams. Continue to push forward, try and when you fail, get up and try again. life is about the journey and the determination to win.


Emotional Intelligence EQ

Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is the quality that enables us to confront the world with patience and an insight to deal with problems effectively.  It allows us to navigate the challenges in our lives and to become more tolerant. We feel the presence of EQ in the sensitivity that we feel towards others. Simply put, we do not trust our first impulse but look deeper into the meaning of the world around us. For example: anger may be a cover for sadness or fear may stem from vulnerability or a sense of loss. The highest good is to serve those who do not have enough.

Emotional intelligence, it is generally said to include at least three skills: 

  1. Emotional awareness, or the ability to identify and name one’s own emotions;
  2. The ability to harness those emotions and apply them to tasks like thinking and problem solving;
  3. The ability to manage emotions, which includes both regulating one’s own emotions when necessary and cheering up or calming down other people.

EQ is not ingrained in us, but it is a study of where our emotions arise from and how to deal with it. One that can master the emotion, can master action. The master of emotions is one that can alter the invisible structure that surrounds them. This structure is one that has been cultivated from early learning years. Our early years influence us and our level of EQ. It is a diverse set of concepts that allows us to see the same concepts in different ways. Emotional mastery is about receiving multiple layers of meaning in the negative space of life. Being able to see potential relatives that may exist. People have grown technically adept, but not emotionally adept. We need to study emotional intelligence in order to properly navigate emotions. We must a new way of seeing and interacting with things and people around us. To see differently, we must feel differently. We must gain knowledge that we don’t have. EQ is what makes leaders great and sets it apart from a mere manager. We need to accept and educate ourselves on EQ in order to facilitate a wiser and saner race and teach each other on EQ.